A Big Pet Peeve

This will just be a quickie because I like to keep this blog about all of the cool things in life like food and family and experiences.

However, I feel compelled to speak about this because I see it more and more on social media, within Lyme groups, and how people who are battling Lyme Disease refer to themselves.

I don’t know where this meme came from so I can’t credit it, I found it on Pinterest. This person (along with countless others) has labeled themselves a, LYMIE. And do you notice how cutsie and pretty the meme is?

Ridiculous.

If I was going to make a meme about me having Lyme Disease, I can guarantee you it would not look like this.

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If I hear another person dealing with Lyme Disease refer to themselves as a “Lymie”, I’m going to blow a gasket.

You are NOT a lymie. You are a human being in a great battle with a chronic bacterial infection, but you are NOT the illness you battle. Don’t label yourself. Don’t own negative crap like that. Don’t get comfortable with it, don’t hug it and cuddle with it and make it part of your identity. Look at it logically, like how you would read directions on how to build a shelf. And with that amount of emotion. Educate yourself, find treatments that work for you, take care of yourself, but don’t get so wrapped up in the weight of it all that it becomes your identity and you begin to label yourself with pet names like “Lymie” or “Spoonie”.

Focus on all of the parts of you outside of Lyme Disease. Yes, I understand that having this infection changes our lives. I understand that many of us can’t do all of the things we used to be able to do, that we feel like crap a lot and that it’s a major challenge and sometimes can be very scary and is frustrating ALL the time. I get that.

But you are still YOU. Set aside what others think about this illness. Make sure people in your life are treating you like YOU. Focus on the parts of you that need loving tenderness and fun and excitement and fulfillment. At whatever level you can do. Take small, even tiny, steps toward doing things the non-sick you would do. Every little moment and every little step toward focusing on the blessings in your life no matter how large or infinitesimal, makes a huge impact on your health.

You are not your illness, you are battling an illness, there is a big difference.

xo ~ Gluten Free Zen

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4 Comments on “A Big Pet Peeve

    • I know people who have it certainly take it seriously, which is why I can’t figure out why they would be labeling themselves in such a ridiculous and offhanded way.

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  1. April…I applaud you for this post! I am just another reader, but I feel like you are a friend. I am so encouraged and proud of your blog and we enjoy your phenomenal recipes. I have a family full of celiacs and Crohns and Colitis that get so much great info. We ALL agree 100% with your post. Making light of these diseases is NOT helpful to anyone.

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    • Amy, thank you so much for commenting. First, let me say that I don’t consider you or anyone who follows my blog “just another reader”! I absolutely love it when people comment and share their thoughts with me. Not many people do, as I guess they are shy or feel like what they have to say may not be important, but all comments are welcomed! I’m so happy that you enjoy my recipes and my random ramblings…LOL. xoxo

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